The phrase William and Kate have banned

Prince William knows better than most the damage a label can do. Growing up as the heir while his brother Harry was cast as the spare left a wound that eventually became the title of a tell-all memoir — and a very public rift that continues to play out on the world stage. Now, as William and Princess Kate raise their own three children, global parenting expert Jo Frost, best known as the Supernanny, says the couple are doing things very differently indeed.

What Supernanny really thinks

Frost, who spoke to Hello! magazine, is convinced that William and Kate are acutely aware of the dangers of ranking their children — Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis — against one another. Rather than allowing royal hierarchy to seep into family life, the couple are said to be actively working to give each child equal attention and equal importance, whether they are at a public engagement or at home.

Catherine, Princess of Wales in purple, with her three children at a royal event.
'Dare I say it, in their family, it would never be the heir and the spare. It would be about the importance of all of them.'

A surprisingly normal home life

Behind the palace appearances and Trooping the Colour balcony waves, Frost paints a wonderfully ordinary picture of the Wales household. 'They have a lovely balance of that and behind closed doors, no doubt they're playing games and winding each other up as siblings do, teasing each other, having fun and baking cookies and being out in nature,' she said. Royal commentator Katie Nicholl has echoed that vision, writing that Forest Lodge will likely be a home filled with muddy boots, dogs and kids charging in and out of the garden.

Jo Frost

Building a team for the future

Frost's view goes beyond simply keeping the peace between three young siblings — she sees it as laying the groundwork for the monarchy itself. When George eventually becomes King, she argues, he will need Charlotte and Louis beside him as working members of the Royal Family. 'The understanding that it really takes a team, with the important roles in upholding the crown and the monarchy,' Frost said. 'We're seeing these very early seeds now, with respect to what it means to support each other and to nurture together.' For a family still navigating the very public fallout of the Harry and Meghan years, it is a vision of unity that feels both deliberate and deeply personal.